
Meet THE Collective
Each death doula brings their own wisdom, education, and lived experiences to their work. If you would like to speak with a particular doula, please reach out to them individually at their contact information below.
If you have general questions about becoming a doula, doula courses and education, or mentorship opportunities, please see our frequently asked questions page.
If you would like to become a member of the collective or be added to our directory, please fill out our membership form.
Meet THE BOARD
SANDI BIANCHI
Sandi comes from a line of healers and has had an intimate relationship with death since she was born. Sandi completed her training with Lifespan Doulas. By explaining the gentle way we leave this world and offering an abundance of love and comfort, Sandi minimizes the fear of death while helping souls cross over. Sandi is fluent in Spanish and her Mexican culture inspires her to bring the tradition and practice of home funerals to American culture. Sandi is also a Near-Death experiencer and offers guidance to others who have had a Near-Death Experience. Through her own experience she is able to help individuals integrate and process their own NDE.
Sandi volunteers with hospice, is a member with IANDS, the International Association for Near-Death Studies, is certified in reiki healing and is an ordained minister.
shepherdyouhome.com
Email: sandibianchi@gmail.com
Erica reid gerdes
Erica (she/her) is a NEDA Proficient Death and Transition Doula working in the Chicagoland area. She completed her doula training with Going with Grace in April of 2021. Her focuses are memorial rituals/ remembrances, legacy work, facilitating family conversations around end of life, obituary writing, active end of life care, and cancer treatment support.
waxwingjourneys.com
Email: ericareid@gmail.com
Patrice horton
Patrice is a NEDA Proficient Integrative Healing Arts Practitioner for End of Life Care. A trained End of Life Doula and Certified Transpersonal Hypnotist, Patrice offers before and after life care services that utilize holistic healing modalities such as The Emotional Freedom Technique, Auriculotherapy, Flower Essences, and more, that can enhance the quality of life for the person transitioning and assist the loved ones and caregivers through the grief process. She is currently a Mortuary Science student and advocate for home funerals.
ladyp3rdeye.wordpress.com
Email: ladyp@ladyp3rdeye.com
Jessica loesel
Jessica is a compassionate and knowledgeable End of Life Doula, having completed the University of Vermont’s program in 2019. With her experience as a CNA, an in-home caregiver and a hospice volunteer, she brings wisdom and professionalism to her practice. Raised close to the land and a long-time yoga practitioner, Jessica's comfort with death work has been shaped by personal experience as well. She actively contributes to the community through the Chicago Death Doula Collective, Green Burial Council, NEDA, NHFA and the Funeral Consumer Alliance.
www.endoflifechicago.com/
Email: endoflifechicago@gmail.com
Shaleka smith
Shaleka is a trained end-of-life doula, author, speaker, and healthcare professional who brings heart, healing, and hope to every space she enters. Her work is rooted in creating safe spaces where people feel seen, heard, and supported. As the author of Grief, I Didn’t Sign Up for This and the Letters to Heaven Journal Series, Shaleka offers compassionate tools that guide people through grief and loss with honesty and hope.
In addition to her doula practice, she is a certified sexual assault crisis worker and experienced facilitator. These roles deepen her ability to companion others through trauma, loss, and the sacred journey of end-of-life care.
www.grapsate.com/
Email: mystory@grapsate.com
ALEJANDRO SALINAS
Alejandro is a clinical massage therapist, yoga teacher, dream worker, musician, and grief advocate. He has hosted Death Cafes since 2018. He was a consultant for Be Strong Families in creating their Grief Compass: Navigating Trauma and Loss cafe deck and has been featured in the Chicago Reader.
Email: alej.salinaslmt@gmail.com
Meet THE MEMBERS
ALI COLE
Ali specializes in life transitions and community development. Over the years, Ali has worked to foster individual growth while nurturing community and creativity. Ali has her Death Doula certificate from the Conscious Dying Institute, Hospice Volunteer Certification from Ascension Hospice and Palliative Care and is a member of NEDA. She also holds a MA in Arts Administration from The School of the Art Institute and a BA in Psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Madison.
Email: ali@alicole.com
ANNA ZEISEL
Anna graduated from Macalester College with a BA in cultural anthropology and is currently working towards her Masters of Divinity and Interreligious Chaplaincy certification. She is a 200-hour trained yoga instructor and INELDA-trained Death Doula. Her areas of focus include legacy projects, meditation, sitting vigil and yoga.
Email: annaczeisel@gmail.com
Deanna Rondero
Deanna is a Registered Dietitian, Meditation Teacher, and End-of-Life Doula dedicated to helping individuals heal their relationship with food and body and providing a safe space through life's many transitions. Her approach is rooted in a decolonized perspective, recognizing how systemic factors impact health, wellness and various transitions —especially for marginalized communities. With over a decade of experience in healthcare, Deanna specializes in eating disorder recovery, chronic illness management, intuitive eating, and mindfulness-based nutrition counseling. She also provides compassionate support during life transitions, whether related to health, grief, death or personal transformation. She also desires to provide this support for individuals and their loved ones as they navigate the end-of-life journey. Through emotional, spiritual, and practical guidance, she creates a sacred space for meaningful reflection, informed choices, and peaceful transitions at any place you are in life. Her mission is to honor each person’s unique experience with presence, dignity, and deep respect for their wishes.
Email: deanna@nourishedtransitions.com
Garrett schwindt
Garrett Schwindt is a Marriage and Family Therapist. At the heart of it, Garrett thinks therapy is a process fueled by curiosity and believes that deepening your understanding of past experiences can contextualize what’s happening in your current situation, creating a path toward progress and healing. Therapy offers us a chance to collaborate on the issues you’re facing. Garrett thinks of their training simply as a tool to use to explore your lived experiences and foster change.
Email: garrett@gracecft.com
HOLLY HOULF
Holly became a certified death doula in October 2023 after being a supportive presence for several loved ones as they were dying. As death is a huge part of life and every day we get closer to it, Holly strives to help people find comfort and beauty in death, versus being scared. Holly utilizes planning and coordination skills while working in commercial production, and is also a yoga instructor certified in meditation.
Email: hollyhoulf@gmail.com
JORDAN ROSE
Jordan is a Licensed Funeral Director and Certified Death Doula with specialties in queer and trans communities and post-death care. Jordan left the traditional funeral industry to create their own space and is dedicated to changing the conversation around death care, putting the rights into the hands of clients.
Email: roseendoflife@gmail.com
Katherine Adams
As a queer radical care worker and death doula, Katherine (they/she) has worked closely with both elders and adults with disabilities. They were trained by a life deeply lived, and by the revolutionary Going with Grace. She has collaborated in Chicago for 20+ years with young people and artists as a facilitator and art teacher. Katherine now organizes, practices mutual aid and care with disability justice activists, care workers and sw collectives. As a community member, elder queer, parent, artist and gardener, Katherine believes deeply in our humanity and everyone’s inherent beauty, value, joy, grief and autonomy. They bring calm, warmth and intentionality to situations and conversations of fear, uncertainty and grief. Through her care and death work and relationships, she heralds the importance of love and vulnerable community connection in our fight for collective liberation and justice for all those oppressed, in life and death. Katherine specializes in quality of life, tender physical care, exploring and celebrating legacy through dialogue and/or artmaking, encouraging reflection and peace, intimacy and creativity and heart healing and connection.
Email: eleanoregg@gmail.com
LORI HATTON
Lori is an Evanston resident and serves the community as an End-of-Life Doula and an Advanced Care Planner. She is also a hospice and dog therapy volunteer. As founder of Nightingale Crossings (www.nightingalecrossings.com), she strives to provide compassionate care to disarm the fear surrounding death, honor the process, and work towards a “good” death for all of end-of-life clients. She is honored to be trusted, both in advanced planning and in end-of-life support for those nearing the end-of-life, as well as their family members. Lori has received End-of-Life Doula Certifications from the Doulagivers Institute and the University of Vermont and Certifications in Elder Care and Advanced Care Consulting from the Doulagivers Institute. She is a member of the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (NEDA) and is “NEDA Proficient”. She holds an M.B.A. from the University of Leuven, Belgium and a B.S. from Indiana University.
Email: nightingalecrossings@gmail.com
MARY PHELPS
Mary is a licensed clinical massage therapist and natural healer who holds space for the grieving person and their family. She is a certified full-spectrum doula in birth, end of life, and perinatal loss. She has specialized certification as a grief massage therapist and trained in Japanese Zen Shiatsu bodywork. Her chosen modalities improve the experience of death, dying and grieving for her clients and their families. Mary can attend someone at their end of life with massage and shiatsu or offer grief massage for those who have experienced any for of loss, either of a person, place, animal, or object. Her vision for end of life care includes a world where death is not feared, but embraced and respected as a natural part of life through community education, collaborative conversations, and healthy touch. In her free time, she enjoys dancing with fire and making music.
Email: maryphelpsbusiness@outlook.com
Megan Sizemore
Megan has over 10 years working as a chaplain and spiritual care provider for adult and pediatric hospice patients and families. As an ordained minister, she seeks to guide families and individuals through the end of life process and the grief that accompanies this time. Megan’s experience has allowed her to understand the logistics day to day as well as the emotions that come up during this time. From the time of meeting, Megan seeks to establish a relationship so that no one that is journeying is alone through end of life decision planning to post death memorial services.
Email: sizemore.m@gmail.com
REBECCA WATKINS
Rebecca is a certified death doula through Going With Grace. Rebecca has a multicultural background, having grown up primarily in Ukraine. Rebecca’s work as a death doula is influenced by their background as a yoga teacher, theater artist, and witchcraft practitioner, as well as influenced by their spirituality. Rebecca has a specific passion for helping communities dealing with violence and cares about preserving and educating regarding cultural practices around death while keeping ancient traditions alive in the modern day.
Email: rebeccaewatkins95@gmail.com
Sara Suh
Sara is a wife, and mom of one soon to be teen and many pets; one dog, 3 cats, 10 Chickens, many fish and a demanding turtle. She is currently working on her Doctorate in Acupuncture and Chinese Medicine. Sara completed her End of Life Doula training this past October with INELDA. She is a volunteer with Rainbow Hospice Ark at Resurrection Hospital in Chicago and is a certified Hospice and Palliative Care Acupuncturist from the National Association of Hospice and Palliative care Acupuncturists.
Email: sara.suh@yahoo.com
TANYA WILLIAMS
Tanya is a death doula, writer and storyteller, with a Master’s in Human Services with a focus on family crisis, grief and bereavement. Tanya is passionate about helping individuals learn to cope with complicated grief and family crisis that grief can sometimes cause or exacerbate. Tanya facilitates an online grief support group, and is the author of “The Dirty Side of Grief”, a blog that focuses on restoring or building a meaningful quality of life while trying to cope with complicated grief. Tanya works as a part-time death doula, helping individuals during the final stages of their lives by offering logistical planning for the time before, during and after of death; coordinating vigils or comforting practices; helping the dying person reflect on their life and values; and explaining the bodily functions of dying to caregivers.
Email: tanyacharita@gmail.com
dandelion
Deeply committed to creating spaces of belonging, dignity, and autonomy for those abandoned by institutional care, Dandelion (they/them) offers care as a companion, not a guide—holding space for loss without imposing timelines or solutions. Their work includes threshold companionship for those navigating deep grief, trauma, psychiatric abuse, and medical harm. They hold particular space for queer and trans communities, recognizing that traditional grief structures often fail said communities. Their work ensures that in death and grief, we are met with dignity, agency, and care that reflects who we truly are. Dandelion completed training as a death and abortion doula through A Sacred Passing.
Email: midwestresilienceapothecary@gmail.com
JOHN KOHLHEPP
After losing his mother to cancer and navigating the closing of her estate, John found that there were very few companies offering affordable estate administration services. In response, John became a NEDA-certified Death Doula and Estate Planner. He is the founder and managing director of A Secure Plan, LLC., a company dedicated to supporting end-of-life planning and death aftercare.
https://www.asecureplan.com/
Email: jkohlhepp@asecureplan.com
KRYS SPRINGER
Krys has worked as a professional chaplain in the Pacific Northwest and in the Chicago area, and is currently working as a Pediatric Bereavement Specialist. With Master’s degrees in Counseling Psychology and Divinity, Krys has also worked in higher education and Clinical Ethics, and is committed to community development and developing grief-informed practices.
Email: krys.l.springer@gmail.com
erin daly
Erin is a certified End-of-Life Doula with a focus on companion pets and shelter animals. Erin is currently the full-time manager of special events at Anti-Cruelty, a local open-door animal shelter in River North, and has been working hard to bring more awareness to the grief and compassion fatigue that staff experiences being in an open door shelter. Having worked with shelter clinic clients who come in for end of life services and provided short term emotional support in the weeks before, during, and after the process, Erin has gone on to be certified through the University of Vermont as a Companion Animal EOL Doula and is pursuing a deeper career in compassionate EOL care for all kinds of animals.
Email: erincdaly87@gmail.com
joy sobczak
Joy is an end-of-life educator passionate about normalizing death, dying, grief, and end-of-life care. Also a death doula, Joy completed training through Going with Grace, IDLM, and NEDA, and is a Grief Support Specialist, often working with veterans and their caregivers and the unhoused.
Email: jsobczak424@gmail.com
Pamela Bruno
Pamela completed training as a Death Doula and End-of-Life Planner through Going with Grace and is proficient with the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance. She volunteers with AccentCare Hospice and Palliative Care and with the No One Dies Alone initiative and holds a BA in Communication Arts and a MA in Interior Design. She is reiki and 200-hour yoga teacher training certified. Her interest in storytelling helps create opportunities for legacy, ritual, meaning making and life review through a variety of mediums.
closingceremonychicago.com
Email: closingceremonychicago@gmail.com
NICOLE DAIGLE
Nicole was an elementary school teacher for over a decade before transitioning into doula work. She sees a natural connection between the two vocations - it’s all about listening to what someone needs and guiding more than telling anyone what to do. A doula is a conduit of information; a big part of the job is to help a client explore what a “good death” is for them. Nicole trained with International Doula Life Movement (IDLM) and holds her proficiency badge from NEDA. She is an expert in advance care planning, and also offers a range of other services.
windingpathdoula.com
Email: windingpathdoula@gmail.com
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